I talked to a friend of mine just prior to finalizing the topic for this week's column and he informed me that his three children are scheduled to be in three different states this weekend for three different baseball tournaments.
My question to him was how he and his wife were going to be at three places at once. Or, at the very least, how was one of them going to be in the third state?
And I'm sure he's not alone. In this day and age, travel teams aren't content competing in the next county and sometimes not even in the next state.
Fortunately, when parents get involved in travel sports, they realize there will be tournaments when they'll be asked to take along an extra player; and it's usually payback for having pawned off their own child to a willing family at some point. It's that willingness that makes travel sports thrive like they do.
But parents need to be considerate when asking another family to take on the extra responsibility of an additional child, especially if the trip involves an overnight stay. Here are some things to keep in mind:
One last reminder: There is nothing wrong with your child missing one tournament if you can't attend and can't make other arrangements. Sometimes other family activities have to be the priority. It's just one of life's lessons, and after all, isn't that what we are trying to teach through youth sports?
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