We often see letters about women who have gotten pregnant. Usually legislation, passed by a group (largely comprising men), determines when, where and if a woman can decide what to do about a pregnancy.
I have never seen legislation that determines what should be done about the men who impregnate the women. Until it becomes a crime to impregnate a woman (other than one's wife), we must stop making pregnancy decisions for women.
It takes two to become pregnant. It should be two who deal with the consequences.
Hilton Head Island