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Ex-etiquette: Ex posts 'missing you' letter on Facebook from family pet to son

Q: My ex and I split up about four months ago. We were together almost ten years and had two sons together. She had an affair, I found out and moved my kids out the next day. She sees the boys intermittently, but it's difficult since she's living with the guy. Yesterday I found an open letter on Facebook from our family pet. The pet lives with her and the letter was written like it was from the pet, talking about how much he missed my oldest son. My son hasn't seen it, but I'm afraid he will, and it just seems like it's hitting below the belt. What's good ex-etiquette?

Family

Living with Children: Some say, parents should ask their babies' permission before changing their diapers

Competition amongst the membership of the International Association of the Weird and Even Weirder for the Most Bizarre Idea of All Time has finally, after more than five decades of weird-mongering, come to an end – the rest of us can only hope, anyway. The winner is Deanne Carson of Australia who proposes that to advance a "culture of consent" in the home, parents should ask their babies' permission before changing their diapers, as in, "I'm going to change your nappy (diaper) now, my precious. Is that okay?"

Family

Cohousing: The new Bay Area trend in senior living

The skyrocketing cost of Bay Area housing almost forced Marietta Borgel to leave San Jose, the place she's called home for six decades. Then she discovered home-sharing and, for the first time in her 75 years, Borgel moved in with a roommate.

Living

Best way to see Niagara Falls is up close

Niagara Falls is nature at its mightiest. More than just a look at a waterfall, a visit is a full vacation surrounded by the natural beauty of the area and the luxury that has drawn tourists from around the world.

Living

The world's most beautiful boulevards find favor with 'flaneurs'

When my architect friend Westley visits Paris, he doesn't dawdle in the Louvre or climb the Eiffel Tower. Instead, he goes for a stroll. "I want to experience the city like the locals do," he once told me. "The idea of crowding around the Mona Lisa with a scrum of tourists just doesn't interest me." In other words, Westley is a boulevardier, a "flaneur," that great French word derived from the Old Norse verb "flana" or "to wander with no purpose."

Sneak peek: Bluffton's Downtown Catering and Deli add event space at new location

Bluffton's Downtown Catering, home of the Downtown Deli, has moved to a new location. Here's a quick tour of its new dining room and expansive indoor/outdoor event spaces.
Jay Karr